When I was a little boy, we had a blue motorcycle. Being the youngest, I got to ride in front, by my father's lap. My father drove, and my mother rode in the back. She would be side saddle when she was wearing a skirt. Sometimes my two brothers would have to squeeze in the back seat.
Meanwhile, I got to see all the view. I felt special. Except sometimes the metal gas tank I was sitting on would get so hot and I would burn myself. I got to hold on to the handle bars and pretend I was driving. When we would approach a corner, my dad would alert me so I could beep the horn. (We didn't have traffic lights, so people honked at intersections.) And then I would cheer him on as we approached to overtake the other vehicles. I was so proud.
There was a point in time when it seemed like every weekend, we would all cram ourselves into that two-wheeler and have an outing at the beach. I remember us tying a nylon net full of ripe santol fruits on one handlebar, and a multi-colored striped plastic bag with other goodies on the other side. I remember climbing on with excitement while the rest of the family was still hastening to get ready.
One day, my parents and I went to a party at another town. When we left for home in the evening, it rained heavily all of a sudden. It didn't let up, and the spark plug got wet. The motorcycle stalled. My dad pushed it for about a half a mile as we all walked home in the rain.
I distinctly remember my parents being cool about the situation. That was the one and only time I could remember sort of playing in the rain together. Generally, they were fairly successful and took themselves kind of seriously.
We washed up when we got home. I think my brothers had dinner already prepared. We all laughed about it. It was a fun adventure.
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That's a good memory. I always feel like my own memory of unusual things like that was originally formed by how my parents reacted to them. It makes the difference. Is it a disaster or an adventure? How they reacted often formed how I reacted. I like the detail too of holding the nylon net in one handlebar and the striped bag in the other.
ReplyDeleteI think about these things sometimes with my own kid, like when I strap him into his car seat and see the excitement on his face as we get ready to go to the park or something.
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